Wow, 51kilos said the scale on the shore of Hoan Kiem Lake. What an 'ideal' weight. Women often get fatter after they have children. Some become very very fat. I am different. After having my son, I became as thin as I was before his birth. I used to weigh 47 kilos. My family want me to be fatter. They are afraid that I am sick or ill. But I feel satisfied with my weight. It is much easier for me to choose clothes and of course I look more active and younger. Now, 51 kilos, much more than I expect. When looking at my latest photos, I can't believe it, a 'fat' woman. I hope my weight stops at that level.